The concept of chivalry has changed with the times and it seems as though it is not relevant in today’s society.
The traditional values - a man giving up his coat for a woman if she’s cold or walking nearer the road so she doesn’t get splashed by passing cars - are changing or being lost altogether.
DOUBLE STANDARDS
The idea of being a gentleman used to connote the characteristics of knighthood; being courteous and gallant.
But women today have double standards. We want to be swept off our feet and expect men to make the first move yet we scream and shout about how strong and independent we are that we don't need a man anymore.
Is it really a surprise that men believe their attempts are going unnoticed and unappreciated by women?
CHIVALRY FOR BOTH SEXES
In this day and age chivalry isn't one sided. It seems as though to be chivalrous now means to be kind and courteous to anyone, regardless of any romantic intentions.
This includes helping an old woman cross the road or saying 'bless you' when someone sneezes.
THE VALUE OF FEMALE CHIVALRY
When a man weighs up whether a woman is worth it or not, the chances are she'll pass the test if she does things like offer to split the bill or bring him chicken soup when he's ill in bed.
But it's not always about getting things in return. It’s about recognition for your actions and knowing you'll be treated right.
COMMON COURTESY A RARITY
Unfortunately kindness to strangers has become a rarity with people slamming doors in each other’s faces and pushing in line. We now live in a selfish world.
Common courtesy doesn't exist anymore. With the rise in technology and the decline in personal letters the easier it is to communicate with each other, the less we reach out to others personally.
Society has become more self absorbed and self centred, especially with strangers.
It seems that by losing the smaller, less important qualities of a gentleman, we have lost sight of the bigger picture.
http://www.artslondonnews.co.uk/20110523-is-chivalry-dead
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